The difference between empathy and sympathy.

I've never really being a fan of either of these two words, empathy and sympathy, being used in everyday lives.Seeing as I don't see the point of both of them meaning almost the same thing, but yet still being different when used in contexts. It begs for the question, Why not just settle on one …

How have you been?

I find writing on my notes app much more calming than writing on WordPress.I feel like it's because on my notes app, I feel no pressure to conform to a particular style of writing and it simply feels like I'm writing a note to myself to read later. But anyways, how have you been? I …

What I’ve been listening to during quarantine.

Breathe During these months I've listened to more music than I ever have.I've listened to albums, learnt about new artists, learnt about new genres that may not even have a name, but definitely have their own sound. And that's one major thing I'm grateful for. I'm grateful to be able to listen to music and …

Something I wrote to myself

This was something I wrote to myself around June. I'm a firm believer in journaling and writing out my thoughts and I wrote this when I really needed to and this words just came to me. Sometimes I come back to read it cause it helps. The main reason I'm posting this is because I …

Liifeai

Hi, my name is Lilian and I own this blog. You see, I might have had this blog running for some years now but I've never really acknowledged it. Acknowledged it; saying I was often too shy to talk about owning a blog and that I write for fun. I am not sure why I …

WordPress still a thing?

Do people still use wordpress?! I've been using wordpress for almost three years and I don't think I'd be wrong in saying a lot has changed. Not just the new desgins or new updates that I actually really like by the way. Cause that shows the app is not stagnant but moving forward What I …

Know thyself

I'm sure you all are tired of reading my 'I'm back now' posts almost every three months that I manage to post. But here I am again with another 'I'm back now post'. Fingers crossed that it sticks this time.

Read and read more; Oh yeah, I don’t mean school books.

I saw this up on Instagram and I literally laughed out loud cause, this reasonates so true for me. The only major difference is I've been doing more of reading this year. I've always liked reading. To me reading is fun. Yep. You read right. I, Lilian, see reading as a very fun thing to …

Growing up for dummies

Ever since I turned seventeen– July last year– I've been scared. Scared of growing older. Scared of the responsibilities that come with growing older. In three+three years time I'd be twenty three and people would have started asking me as subtly as they can when I'm planning on getting married. And this is just one …